Frank says: 9/8/16

Quito Ecuador.  Awoke early, measured light coming through the thin curtain. Quiet. The room was freshly painted white with a yellow accent wall. Simple furniture; minor cultural touches. I got up and looked out the window facing the local street running between “CarpeDM Hostel” and the church I mentioned. Across the street on the third floor balcony of a rustic “Spanish-like” structure with short cement pillars, stood an elderly woman with an apron, who was watering her flowers in the morning light. It was a captivating scene. It could have been of any age. I felt like this was my first exposure to the beauty of Ecuador. I would look out each morning with camera in hand to take her photo—no luck.

After dressing we went to the third floor of the hostel to the small 3 table kitchen area—The length of the room had wall to wall windows. OMG—"La Virgen de El Panecillo" directly ahead of us on the elevated hill overlooking “Old Town”, the historic district of Quito which is in the valley where we were located. This was the second breathtaking view of this country I had in a matter of minutes, especially seeing in the light for the first time the thousands of multi-colored homes and buildings crammed together in all directions. I sat at the window seat to savor the view while at breakfast.

Breakfast was good: fresh, strong Ecuadorian coffee & free breakfast. A cook offered eggs any style. You could have fruits, juices, bread, and yogurt. All had to help out and wash their own dishes. Team work each morning. Good to note that bottled water was available always.

The proprietor of CarpeDM Hostel was an outstanding gentleman. The facilities are top-notch and newer for this area. As well as being informative, he communicated in a calm and friendly manner that relieved the anxiety of our transports and day-trips. I found out later that he also runs CarpeDM Adventures which is discussed in Lonely Planet.  

According to Paul, the proprietor, our airport driver an older man owning the large van was actually an owner /general contractor to build our CarpeDM Hostel. The building was started after the ancient façade of an old structure owned by that neighborhood church collapsed. No building while the façade existed. It was supported by wood stations, but one night the stations mysteriously fell, the façade collapsed and cleanup and construction began.  

On our second day, the breakfast room was packed. We sat with a couple from Wimbledon, UK.  Very friendly. We talked tennis, of course, as the US Open was in full swing. We would leave them only to reconnect in Mindo, the antithesis of Quito.

 

When we checked out, our proprietor actually walked with us to the taxi stand where his driver was present, joking with us about some imaginary route to our next stop. Thank you.

 

9/7/2016 Frank Says

look at all this stuff Frank is taking

 

Franks packed rolling and carry on backpacks ready to go

 

I packed with the continuous challenge of competing with Janet on the weight issue. I was very organized and had laid out my stuff 2 weeks in advance (didn’t take the globe—nice touch for the photo I thought). Then I crushed and rolled and crushed and cubed my stuff. Now into the hybrid backpack suitcase-- only 1 oz. heavier than Janet’s pack. I felt vindicated. But still we both had to pack our electronics into the day packs. At the airport we both weighed in at 40 lbs. I felt reasonably happy even though we missed our target of 30-35lbs; Might be discarding some used clothes quickly.

Janet's rolling backpack weight at airport

 

I agree with Janet-- pre-launch is crazy. Always something to do or finish. Thanks to REO-Novi and John O. for bringing my client’s home to closing.  I think my final, early morning memo about the IRS lien and other final issues covered the bases. Remember the commission check goes to that Chicago address.

 

Bye Mom and kids. Saw Mom in the morning. Her home was the pickup point for the airport. Thanks Kathleen. The flight was uneventful. All announcements were spoken in English and Spanish. You were offered way too much food. I don’t remember that on domestic flights.

Goodbye breakfast with Frank's mom

Pre-flight was slightly different. Set off the buzzer 4 times in screening. Kept on disrobing one extra item at a time. They said you could keep your shoes on for cripe sakes. Not enough—I joyfully requested a private screening once asked to submit to one by the ATA guys. Into the booth for a frontal and back pat down. I haven’t said “yes sir” to anyone as much as that since day my dad found the ½ gallon whiskey bottle was filled with water. Come to think of it--No that’s not accurate, there was that back room inspection and suit case search at London Heaththrow Airport.  Trench coats were not a good look for me—but it does rain in the UK. Our ATA guys were professional and actually pretty nice—no joking though. Free at last. Janet had a frown.

At the airport with chauffer Kathleen

 

We landed late and made it to our hotel at 2:30 EST. After landing we went through immigration. We stood with a young lady doctor who studied in Ohio, but now lived in Florida, that was on second medical mission to the indigent tribes in the jungles; another 4-hour drive for her after being picked up by other missionaries. She was very nice and offered suggestions. The conversation made the wait go faster and lessened some anxiety. We got picked up by a nice man in a very large passenger van. We tried to be friendly but spoke different languages.

The extent of the city lights at night is impressive. The freeways are new, smooth, with many overpasses leading to the Pan American expressway. 35 miles from the airport, we arrived in “Old Town” Quito where our hotel is located. We are right next to a large church. Made me feel pretty good. 2:30 am. Our driver had to wake the proprietor. He took us directly to our room—no official check-in now. CRASHED! See you in the morning.

 

9/6/2016 – Janet Says

Day of departure, on the plane. Perhaps the reason most global vagabonders are young, and just out of college is because taking a trip for a year when you have a career, house, kids parents and on and on, is just too darn much work. 

My last day of work was just 5 days ago and Franks last day of work?  He was sending emails early this morning.  Over this last week we finished shopping, completed our financial arrangements, moved more stuff into the storage unit, had lots of goodbyes, went to Chicago to drop a car with our son, and managed to see one last Spartan Football Game.  Did we mention that we are “Bleed Green” people?  to sum up the last 10 days:

The Funny and Good

Throwing away my purse, so long Michael Kors

Not having to deal with ATT for a YEAR

Our last trip to our Financial planner, alas, we made our saving goal, Thanks to Joe at Fidelity, you are the best

Driving for the last time for a year, I hope, get me to my bus quick

Dinners out with friends to say goodbye, wow this was great, we will miss you all

The Bad and Ugly

My backpacks – I am over my weight –UGH40 pounds, I see some serious repacking and shipping in my future

ATT – 8+ hours over the last month reviewing how to unlock my phone and cancel my account with various agents, then on departure date, being hit with a last minute charge of $155

Our last drive from Detroit to Chicago, so hard to say goodbye, in one of the kid’s college cars. Our last dinner with our older sonNow the budget worries start, I have the plan, I have the app (trail wallet) and I have Frank, mister happy go lucky spender.  He loves his art!

The friends we did not see, we just ran out of time, we love you guys too.  

The extra last minute weight gain from all these dinners!!

Then there is saying good bye to my kids…. Will have to cover that in a different blog….to hard today.

 

 

 

 

12 Days to Departure

We ended our pre-launch trip by a classic pain in the ass drive home complete with  Ohio road construction and a closed freeway in Michigan. The drive took an extra 3 hours.  Listened to a disappointing book on tape.  I like Sci-Fi but come on---a geneticist directing a giant alien robot to start a war with North Korea? We had to skip the planned trip to Pittsburg, PA., to see good friends.  We got restless about last minute things we had to complete.  Back in Livonia for AV ballot, paying storage, paying water bill, etc., etc., etc., and then, now this is big, ordering our entrance tickets on line for Machu Picchu (MP) and the necessary round trip train ride to and from Ollantaytambo, Peru.  (a tongue twister). Pre-order is a necessity. The government sites are in Spanish, so we had to find a tutorial site and placed our laptops side by side to ensure accuracy. It worked-- we got our tickets sheet and receipts.  The train is weird. We need to take the ticket sheet to the station to get the actual boarding ticket. Since, the government site displayed that only 103 tickets were left to enter MP on October 8, 2016, our target date, we needed to get it right. We did –Teamwork is a great thing.  Also agreed on a motel Janet found near the station. We picked the early 5:30 am train.

 

15 Days to Departure and Still on a road trip

Frank Says, 

Can you believe it?  From Cinci we traveled southward to Maggie Valley, North Carolina to visit my HS friends.  I’m writing while sitting on their deck at a cabin overlooking the Smokey Mountains.  The vista is breathtaking. Thank you Brother for the invitation. The clouds slowly roll across the mountain peaks like an eerie alien invasion (or Hunger Games attack). When the sun breaks through, the brightness is intense. At night, the stars are brilliant.

With our host’s direction, Janet and I were able to hike up and down the mountain ranges in the Smoky Mt. National park and behind their home.  In the climb behind our hosts home, the cows were staring at you on the pasture trails.   This was funny, ie.: “Eat more Chikin”.  It was good to work the legs, raise the heart rate, and keep breaking in the new boots before the actual trip. We both felt confident after many months with our pals and of course the trainers at the Livonia Rec Center in pre-trip training.   I special  thanks to PT’s Deb, Wendy, Brad, Don, Holly, and also Harry (from way in the beginning)

But you can feel isolated; we are so far up the mountain. I’m very cautious of the steep winding road up or down the mountain. I need our friends tricked out jeep to get around here. They should visit here; as our friends with their Harleys. This place is loaded with friendly bikers and RVs, and winding country roads.  The local towns are also very cool. Many of us are familiar with Asheville (and Biltmore Estate), but Waynesville and Henderson are also quaint, kind of like Northville, MI.--with small shops and many breweries. The folks are nice. Someone suggested I read several books authored by Patrick Conroy in order to understand “U.S. southern culture”.  I’m pretty sure I did not insult anyone. I don’t think we talked politics or anything.  I think they were just trying to help me get more insight. Hope so! When you’re drinking-- you need insight. Remember, barstool talkers are always telling some truth it’s just that their solutions are wacked.

Most impressive, at least to me, was the “River Arts District” of Asheville.  Carved out of an old industrial area by the French Broad River and railroad tracks, many brick buildings extending to several adjoining streets have been gentrified, painted only like an artist could or would, creating artist work spaces and galleries.  Walk right in! I spoke to several artists about their processes and subjects. Two actually started at the Center for Creative Studies in Detroit, near my hometown.  One guy specialized in portraits and was painting a professional golfer. I found he was a personal friend with Russell Keeter, a famous artist in Detroit circles ( UM Professor too).  Our family has an oil painting of his and pencil sketches.   Other artists painted or carved or heat-treated all types of images and forms. This is a location for fine art of all types. No trinkets here.  You remember I spoke about enlightened mind and soul. This is another place of inspiration. This place has artists that soar and take you with them. It was great.

 

17 Days to Departure and We Take a Trip

Frank says:

Some how, we squeezed in some time before our departure to visit Cincinnati. Janet is a professional tennis buff, or may be almost a fanatic, and a great tourney is held there. (To clarify-her actual fanaticism is reserved for Spartan sports.). I enjoy the athleticism of these international players, too.  Do you detect a theme here? In tennis,  soccer too, identifying the nationality and culture of the player is part of their personalstory and identity.  We dig it and the venue at ATP is grand.  Janet’s favorite, the Scotsman Andy Murray, was upset in the finals. Boo Hoo! I liked the underdog.

We also met new friends at our first Airbnb stay, Kyle and Aeriel Ashlee. They are younger then us, our kids age, but kindred spirits who have traveled afar. They applaud diversity, appreciate varied cultures, and have themselves made great effort in formulating a personal philosophy to live by that encourage themselves and us all to work toward social justice. Their insight is far more complex then I could explain, but as they state in their recently authored book— Vital:

“Sharing stories and bearing witness to someone else’s lived experiences are incredibly transformative practices…When we intentionally listen to other’s stories, our stereotypes begin to fade as we see ourselves in their lives.” (pg. 137)

In our travels we are looking to pursue the same transformative goal.

There is of course the powerful spirit of adventure in undertaking our journey, but also the search for enlightenment of our mind and soul through others is paramount.  This endeavor was never merely a picture, picture, & picture exercise. Our meeting Kyle and Aeriel was like an omen of good things to come.  Ps. They said we would love Morocco too.

See photos below of the tournament and Kyle and Aeriel's book Vital

 

Family and Friends Send Off

Frank says:

I finally got back to the keyboard.

What a hoot! Our neighborhood  friends gave us Bon Voyage party. We  joined together to share  inspiration and support.  Our hosts, opened their home for us and did a first class job. The food, décor, and presentation were 5 stars. (Is this the Four Seasons Restaurant?) Thanks to all that came to see us off. Thanks for the artsy signpost. We may cross paths again since the launch is still 26 days away.  Remember to keep our blog cards. We will be more consistent in our efforts.  No guarantee on content.

 

The family send off was equally fun. Our hosts my dear uncle, aunt and cousins, threw a great party with abundant wine and the best authentic Greek cuisine ( no tomato sauce). Janet was the designated driver, as will be her role often, especially in France and at other European vineyards.